I think the distinction between cool and cold is likely to be somewhat subjective, particularly as you also have ice cold as an option.
I prefer my water to be cool, but definitely not ice cold. How cold will vary a little depending on how hot I am at the time. In other words, now much cooling I want from my water. I do suffer from mild tooth sensitivity, though, so I will normally err on the cool side of cold.
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